According to a large number of studies based on interviews performed on women around the world, the large majority claims never having experienced an ejaculatory orgasm, also known as squirting. Considering the number of women that unfortunately also have never reached an orgasm, it becomes sadly clear that only an extremely small group has ever experienced an ejaculation.
As it is usually the unfortunate case with female sexuality in the western world, female ejaculation was and still is a taboo subject, shrouded in mystery and associated by many to perversion or deviant sexuality. According to the Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation) one of the few mentions made to this subject in western literature was made in the XIX century, in a book with the exciting name of “Psychopathia Sexualis”. Never having read this book, I dare not imagine how many of my own behaviours are listed there :).
These taboos were reinforced by the fact that the ejaculation occurs near or in the urethra (it is still open to debate, which shows the deplorable state of our knowledge of sexual anatomy) which, being the same channel where urine exits the body, may lead the woman to feel ashamed by mistaking it with urine. The knowledge that we have so far points that this is not the case, and that the liquid that squirts out is most probably secreted by the Skene’s Gland (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skene's_gland), an organ quite similar to the male prostate which is also responsible for most of the volume of the men’s semen.
This being true it would help explain why some women seem to be altogether unable to ejaculate, as in some rare cases a woman may not have a Skene’s Gland altogether.
But the fact is that female ejaculation exists, in the huge majority of cases is extremely pleasurable to the woman and thus an important subject. So let’s dive into it!
How to get a woman to ejaculate?
The easy answer to this question, which works most of the times, is by continuous stimuli of the G spot with the woman being relaxed. The “relaxed” part is of the utmost importance, as in most cases relaxation and ejaculation don’t come (pun intended) because of emotional or mental blocks.
To who still has doubts where the G spot is after reading this blog, nothing like a short movie to direct you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9pJHXLza0w&feature=related
Furthermore in the initial phase of the ejaculation the woman feels (so I am told, can’t be sure of this one) something which is aching to the urge to pee, and it requires her to relax the same way she does while peeing to be able to ejaculate.
For some women it may be easier to get there by doing away with a partner altogether, if that is what is keeping you from relaxing, and try it out by masturbating.
A step-by-step guide to men, with a peculiar accent can be found here:
And a most exceptional guide made by a woman for women, as it should be:
Squirting as I experience it
Getting a woman to squirt is an highly erotic experience. The taste is a bit bitter, but it blends in with the rest of the flavours, and feeling your partner just coming and “bringing it all out” just makes me absolutely crazy and brings us closer together not only sexually but also in intimacy, making her feel that there is nothing about her you can’t take and love.
Help her get there and you won’t regret it! :P
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