Ejaculation and acupressure

The Taoists, masters of human sexuality, developed two acupressure techniques for ejaculation control that are fantastic for men with precocious ejaculation problems (and still more fantastic for their sexual partners :)) ) but also reveal themselves incredibly useful in the exercises necessary to turn a man multi-orgasmic.

The most common techniques are:

1- Press with one of two finger the perineum area, which is the spot between the scrotum (bag of skin where the testicles are held) and the anus. For those who may have doubts were this point is located, check out the image below, the perineum being tagged as the perineal body. Pressure in this point compresses the nerves that trigger the orgasmic reflex, reducing immediately the sexual arousal to more controlled levels without interrupting the erection. It may demand some contortionist to reach it in the middle of the more complex sexual positions but its results are very consistent;

2- Press the gland (head) of the penis between two fingers, being that one of them should exert pressure directly over the frenulum of the prepuce (the skin fold you can find directly under the gland, on the underside of the penis). This pressure, if maintained for some time, will cause the collapse of the erection, so it may be useful when erections are not convenient or to avoid the morning "superman taking off" position that men must assume to be able to urinate with a morning erection.

Should you want, in the future, to become multi-orgasmic, the domain of the first technique will be critical, so I recommend that you try it out and gain some experience with it.

Now, it's up to you to enjoy sex that lasts… and lasts… and lasts...

The misterious Injaculation

This article is mainly for men, although it won't hurt that women read this, if only to get their partners to read it too. :)

Well, it seems that in the post about the uses of the Kegel exercises I forgot to explain how a man can save up some tissues by learning how to Injaculate.

Let's first start with the technique and later on pick up on the many advantages.

In case you have been doing your Kegels for some time now, this technique will be relatively easy. When you feel that you have reached your Point of No Return (tm) and you are about to ejaculate, contract your PC muscle as hard as you can and keep it contracted. You will feel the normal ejaculation contractions but... nothing will come out. It's enough to keep the contraction for the 8 to 10 seconds the average man takes to ejaculate and you're all done!

If you get some prostate fluid or even some sperm it only means that you must Kegel your PC muscle some more.

Now, what is happening down there? According to the Tantrists and Taoists, your body is reabsorbing and recycling the sperm, allowing you not to waste away your vital energy (prana, chi, mana, you name it) that they state is lost in each ejaculation. According to the western medicine, you are in reality ejaculating into your bladder, as you may confirm by the cloudy look of your urine next time you take a leak.

Other than the obvious advantages in all the situations in which leaking some mililiters of a slimy liquid that stains dresses of White House trainees and is easy to smell is not advisable, there is an additional advantage. It may be a merely psychological matter, as from a physiological point of view it is hard to find a reason, but effectively when you Injaculate there is a much smaller loss of vitality and your refractory period (the in between time, if you may) is considerably shortened. So it is a ver advisable practice for sexual marathons and in every other occasion in which a loss of vitality is not warranted.

Personally I use this technique only in very specific situations. After all, falling down exhausted next to your partner feels so good... :)

PC muscle techniques

After having properly developed you PC muscle (see the post about the Kegel exercises for more details) lets finally start doing something fun with all that effort.

There are many techniques associated with the use of this muscle, that differ with gender, and it is not the scope of this article to cover them all.

Still, for the sake of politeness, lets start by:

The ladies

The control of the PC muscle allows women to control their source of pleasure. When fully contracted it increases the stimuli of the clitoris, whereas when relaxed (make a small “out” push with the muscle that, in human sphincters, corresponds to the relaxation reflex) allows the increase of vaginal pleasure. This technique for vaginal pleasure may also facilitate the penetration in the case of painful penetration, either from inability to relax the vagina or a well endowed partner;

The guys

For men the PC muscle functions as an excitement throttle. Contract the muscle and the excitement increases, relax it (“out” push) and the excitement becomes controlled.

Now comes the interesting part. If the man’s PC muscle is developed enough, he can learn to INjaculate, that is, ejaculate into his bladder. This, other than the obvious advantages when there are no easy means to clean up after sex has, according to the Taoist an Tantrist philosophies, many advantages to the man concerning his vitality and libido, but that will be the subject of another post. It also has the advantage of giving the man a wonderful excuse he, for some reason, he decides to fake an orgasm .

One word of warning though: injaculation should not be used as a contraceptive method. Inadequate control of the PC muscle or some pre-ejaculatory fluid with sperm may cause unpleasant surprises.

Have fun and… tell us about your experience!

Weekly hint: The clitoris is not all the same!

For most women, the most sensitive part of the clitoris is the upper left quadrant. From a man's perspective, facing the genitalia, that would be at about 1:30.